From: Marie Dion Gevisser
Sent: Thursday, January 22, 2004
To: John Ben
Stewart
Cc: Jean
Dion; Detective
Jeffrey W. Steele; Dina Dewol - FBI; Mark Culp - FBI
Subject: Family Court or ...
John
Since my repeated
efforts to communicate with you through E-mail fall on
deaf ears, you leave me with only 2 options - Family Court or the sandwich
boards that
These are some of the issues
to be dealt with:
1. Itemized monthly
expenses.
2. Holidays during school
year split 50/50; Easter, Xmas-New Year & summer. E-mail me at least
4 days ahead for single days off you might want to spend with kids.
3. No compensation for the
time not taken with either kid.
4. And any issues you might
have.
Marie
From: Marie Dion Gevisser
Sent:
To: John Ben Stewart
Cc: George G Hurst
Subject: Independence
John
I am trying to empower
Danielle by letting her decide when and where she wants to be,
implying that no “unjew influence” [sic] be placed on
her.
Regarding vacation, if
Danielle decides not to go and remains with the other parent, there will be no
"make up" time.
The new schedule creates
bigger blocks of time for both children, this change addressing their
complaints of the back and forth between the houses.
Finally, my parents have
requested that you do not try to communicate with them.
Marie.
From: Marie Dion Gevisser
Sent: Monday, December 15, 2003 2:57 PM
To: John Ben Stewart
Cc:
Subject: Kids Schedule
John - on weekends that the kids
spend with the one parent the weekend will start Friday
This is a better schedule
for the kids, not to go back and forth, effective
Marie
From: Marie Dion Gevisser [mdg42203@sbcglobal.net]
Sent:
To: John Ben Stewart
Cc: George G Hurst;
Subject: Try Again
John - I returned the child
support check you handed in an unsealed envelope to Jonathan via certified
mail. Do not use the children.
I expect the money
deposited into my account monthly. This is the easy route.
Marie
From: Marie Dion Gevisser [mdg42203@sbcglobal.net]
Sent:
To: John
Ben Stewart
Cc:
Subject: When the dialogue becomes two monologues it is the beginning of
the end. Get with the program.
John - since you cannot
acknowledge any receipt of my repeated written communications, the verbal
communication yesterday outside your house regarding the direct deposit of my
child support check into my
bank account should clarify all the issues on this subject, unless you are
going crazy or lying.
For the record, the written communications were via
email as well as in letter form, the most recent sealed envelope also contained
a blank deposit slip handed to your mother two weeks ago, a day or so before
you last harassed me on the sidelines of Jonathan's soccer game about the
pageant, a subject matter also covered in these written communications.
To repeat, you also owe me $96.19.
Marie
From: Marie Dion Gevisser
Sent:
To: John Ben Stewart
Cc: George G Hurst et al
Subject: End of month billing.
John - here is the bill for the month. You owe
me $96.19. I expect the child support deposit
to be made into my bank account by the 31st.
Marie
From: Marie Dion Gevisser
Sent:
To: John Ben Stewart
Cc: George G Hurst
Subject: Pageant, Privacy & Parental guidance
John – Simple communication
over email sounds to me like a sensible solution to prevent further damage.
Your decision to continue approaching me, harassing
me at the kids’ soccer games, in public forums, in front of the kids as if to
suggest to both the kids and other parents that everything is “hunky dory”
between you and I is not only manipulative but it is quite perplexing for the
kids who don’t know the full story, yet.
The incident last evening, walking through the front
gate into our private courtyard tells me that you continue to have control
issues that you cannot control and that I do not want to deal with anymore.
My decision for you to keep your distance from me
although it is not part of the court order is further efforts to keep the
peace, for the sake of the children.
In other words use the mailbox instead of entering
our private courtyard.
To facilitate our further communications this is what
I want.
1. I want my child support payments automatically
deposited into my account the first of the month. I will give you an account of
expenses the week before via email.
2. I do not want phone calls more than once a day
with the kids. The choice should be with the kids to call you when needed on
days that they spend with me.
With regard to Danielle and the 2003 Nationals
Pageant Program I cannot see any redeeming value to it. Quite the contrary I
think it is degrading of women, period.
This is a business that is not based on attributes
and moral values it is only about money, exploitation of women and stupid
people. Danielle has yet to give me one good reason other than having more fun
for participating in this pageant.
Considering that she has dropped a grade in Spanish
wants tutoring in geometry and complains about the workload in English, as a
parent I cannot approve of such a degrading, worthless activity.
On top of the monetary extravagance of such a onetime
weekend, it sends a message that money has no value. Or worse, you are trying
to buy her off.
The fact that you allow her to think it is something
redeeming shows me how little you care about her moral values and how she grows
up as a human being.
I have given her my input on the subject and told her
that you will make the decision.
Lastly, as discussed in my previous email I will take
an extra week with the kids over the summer vacation to compensate for you
taking them over spring “brake” [sic] to
Marie
From:
Marie Dion-Gevisser
Sent:
To: John Ben Stewart
Cc: George G Hurst
Subject: Italy trip in the spring
John - concerning the trip
to
As far as the kids other
days off during the school year I will not trade any of those days. You are welcome
to take off work and split them 50/50.
Please limit your phone
calls to my personal numbers for emergency purposes only. Use email and/or
personal notes provided to the kids in sealed envelopes and to repeat do not
step off the curb went dropping the kids at my residence.
Furthermore do not use the
kids' sporting games to converse with me.
I expect a response in
writing as far as your decision about the trip to
Marie
From: Marie Dion-Gevisser
Sent:
To: John Ben Stewart
Cc: George G Hurst; James C. Ashworth
John, to repeat the
previous two emails I sent to you on
"...My new email
address is mdg42203@sbcglobal.net...
I want our communications to be through email which I will be checking twice a
week. I do not want you using the kids to get your messages to me unless it is
in a sealed envelope..."
Although you stopped communicating with me on March
21st via email after I responded to your "teeth" email with,
"Did anyone else have anything to do with this e-mail you sent me?" I
assume even if you are not checking your emails your attorney is forwarding
them to you.
You are not to step foot off the curb when dropping
the kids at my house not even to hand me my check which is due on the first of
each month. Such monies should be automatically transferred into my account on
the first or mailed or placed in a sealed envelope and handed to either
child who can be relied on to give it to me. I will itemize the expenses for
the previous month and email them to you. You can itemize your expenses and
either mail them or email them.
Marie
From: MarieDionJD@netscape.net
Sent:
To: John Ben Stewart
Cc: rest
Subject: Communication
John - I
want our communications to be through email which I will be checking twice a
week.
I do not
want you using the kids to get your messages to me unless it is in a sealed
envelope.
You
phone messages should only relate to your issues with the kids, anything else
unless it is an emergency, I repeat, must be dealt through email.
And “rememeber” [sic]
during the school year the kids are here after
Could
you also specify the dates you will be in
Marie
I “John Ben Stew-art” [sic] do hereby
consent to Jonathan and Danielle Stewart accompanying their mother Marie Dion
Gevisser this summer on her trip to
John Ben Stewart Date
From: MarieDionJD@netscape.net
Sent:
To: John Ben Stewart
Subject: [Summer vacation + summary of emails
back and forth]
John Ben
- In view of our divorce agreement and past events I need for you to confirm in
writing the dates of my trip with the kids to Europe this summer.
Marie
From: Marie Dion
Sent:
To: Dr. John Ben Stewart
Cc: jodir@abcklaw.com
Subject: Summer vacation +
summary of emails back and forth
John,
this is to confirm our agreement on the summer vacation with the kids.
I will
be making plans to take the kids to
Although
you said you did not want to discuss summer vacations on e-mail I feel it
necessary to have a written record that confirms what we agreed on.
I would
prefer email communication whenever possible.
I have
cut and pasted the recent emails going back and forth between us. You will of
course let me know if I have missed “anthing” [sic].
Marie
Dion
John Ben
- to simplify the summer calender please write down your "best bet"
vacation plans. I understand that you have to work with the hospital schedule.
As usual I will be “accomdating”
[sic] to some degree.
I do not
want to have these phone conversations with you that go nowhere.
Marie
John Ben
- My understanding of our divorce settlement is that the kids are allowed two
weeks out of State per year. In the past years you have taken the kids out of
My
vacation plans for this summer with the kids are as follows:
One
month in August in
Let me
know your plans for this summer. I need to make arrangments within a week.
Marie
Subject:Re: TEETH
Date:
Did
anyone else have anything to do with this e-mail you sent me?
JBSTE@aol.com
wrote:
Subject: [FWD: FW: ]
Date:
From:Mds
Sorry
for the delay in getting back to you regarding the art-fund raising project. I
understand you called my ex-husband? Feel free to contact me via this email
address.
Marie
Dion Stewart
Subject: Re: CALL FROM MRS. FRANCIS
Date:
Dear
Marie,
Yesterday,
I received a call from Jonathan's Principal, Mrs. Francis. She had tried to reach you at your house and
wanted your cell phone number. She asked
me to ask you to call her. She said that
Thanks, John Ben
From:JBSTE@aol.com
Subject:Re: TEETH
Date:
Subject:TEETH
Date: Thu,
John -
you left a message yesterday on my machine, "I'm at the dentist right
now... Jonathan had a bunch of cavities that all need to be filled. I might
still be able to get the kids on to my dental insurance... But not counting
today's visit the estimated work that still has to be done on Jonathan is
$1325. Give me a call..."
Jonathan
now tells me that there were only 3 teeth that needed filling and that you went
ahead and had his teeth sealed.
You and
I discussed the issue you raised of the kids getting their teeth sealed at
length several weeks ago and I made it clear that I was not interested in
spending money to have their teeth sealed without first getting more
information, that the kids should be responsible for brushing and dental
flossing their own teeth just like they should be responsible for keeping their
rooms tidy and doing their homework.
The
kids are only with me 50% of the time at this time and therefore I cannot
account for what goes on in your household nor do I see it as my business at
this time to interfere. However, I happened to drop Danielle off last week and
what I saw had me sick to my stomach. Your house is a pigsty
and to think that my children are subjected to such a mess is nothing short of
horrifying.
Furthermore,
the message you left on my machine is misleading for it left me with the
impression that in order to have "a bunch of cavities that all need to be
filled" it was going to cost $1325. Your long-winded message mentioned
nothing about getting Jonathan's teeth sealed. Once again you unilaterally
decided to do things your way without first consulting with me.Marie
Subject: Re RE
Date:
John
Since
you can't appreciate my efforts in making the new schedule fit your work
schedule & you have the audacity to ask for this 5 hrs with Jonathan, these
are my rules:
1. Pick
up & drop off at the curb. You are not to come in my house for any reason.
2. The
parent with guard of the kids will drop off unless agreed otherwise.
3. One
phone call a day to the kids at my house. Use Danielle's cell for other calls.
4. No
more than two weeks out of town with the kids per year.
5.
Communication with me should be via E-mail and checked at least once a week or
written and placed in sealed envelope unless there is an emergency, i.e. change
in their schedule, children's health.
6. For a
change in schedule concerning the children the other parent should be advised
as soon as possible, a minimum of 48 hours.
7. Pay
child support on time.
8.
Antibiotics should not be given to the children unless you consult with me
first.
9. Any
other issues that I have not covered I will let you know in the same manner.
10. If
you disagree on any of these rules the issue can be taken to Family Court.
Marie
Dion
P.s. You
can have Jonathan 5 hrs make up time between
Subject: Agreements to matters pertaining to
Jonathan and Danielle Dion Stewart
Date:
John
Ben, as we agreed many years ago the responsibility of dropping off the kids
belongs with the parent in charge at the time. You are not to step foot on my
property. I will bring the kids on the agreed time or when you call once you
get home.
Marie
Dion
Cc:rest
